A ‣ Ages and stages in the UK

Age | Stage |
0 | birth [the moment a baby is born] |
Up to 12 months | a baby |
12 months – 3 years | old a toddler |
3–12 years old | a child: this period is your childhood |
13–18 approximately | a teenager: during this period you are in your teens |
18+ | an adult |
40+ approximately | people are middle-aged [in the middle of their lives] |
60 or 65 | retirement [when people stop work; they are retired] |
80+ | old age (we usually describe people as elderly) |
B ‣ Approximate ages
I’m in my early twenties [21–23].
My parents are in their mid-fifties [54–56].
My grandmother is in her late seventies [77–79].
My grandfather is nearly/almost eighty [he’s probably 79].
My English teacher’s approximately/roughly thirty. [about 30 / more or less 30]
Common mistakes
We can say, he’s 30 or he’s 30 years old. (NOT he has 30 or he’s 30 years)
Also: a 30-year-old man (NOT a 30-years-old man)
C ‣ Past and present
My grandmother’s name was Mary. She’s
dead1 now. She died about ten years ago when I was in my teens, but I remember her well. She was
brought up2 on a farm in Wales, and her parents were very
strict: as a teenager, they didn’t
allow3 her to listen to the radio or go to parties in the village.
In the end4, she decided to leave home and get a job in Cardiff.
At first5 it wasn’t easy, but she
managed6 to find work, and she also met the man who became her husband: my grandfather. My mother was born four years later. She had a very different childhood. She grew up in the city, she
was allowed to go to parties, and when she was in her teens, her parents
let7 her
stay out late8. My mum is the same with me.
1not living; opp alive
2looked after until you are an adult
3give permission
4finally, after a lot of time or thought
5at the beginning
6was able (but it was difficult)
7allowed
8not go home until late
Language help
Let and allow have the same meaning. Let is slightly more informal, and allow is often used in the passive.
My dad let me drive his car. I was allowed to drive my dad’s car.
You’re not allowed to smoke in that room. (NOT It’s not allowed to smoke in that room.)