A ‣ Romance 
“I had my first
date1 when I was 16, and it was terrible. I took a girl to the cinema but she didn’t like the film and looked bored all evening; it was a bad start. Then, when I was 17, I
went out with2 a girl for three months, but we
broke up3 when she met a boy who was two years older than me, and had a car. My first
serious relationship4 was when I went to university. I
got to know5 Melanie because we were on the same course. At first we were just friends, then we started going out with each other, and after a few months we realised we were
in love. We
got engaged6 a couple of7 years after we left university and then …”
1a planned romantic meeting
2had a romantic relationship with
3the relationship ended
4important romantic relationship
5became friends with
6formally agreed to marry
7two, perhaps three
B ‣ Marriage* 
“… we
got married1 the following year. We didn’t want a big
ceremony2, so we had the
wedding3 in the local church near Melanie’s home with just family and a few friends. afterwards we had the
reception4 in a small hotel nearby, and then went on our
honeymoon5 to Greece.”
* the time when you are married
1became husband and wife
2an important public event
3the ceremony when people get married
4the wedding party
5a holiday just after getting married
Common mistakes
She got to know Darren at university. (NOT She knew Darren at university.)
Now they plan to get married. (NOT They plan to get marry; or They plan to married.)
She’s getting married to Darren next year. (NOT She’s getting married with Darren next year.)
C ‣ Children 
“Just over three years later Melanie
got pregnant, and our first child, Cal, was born just two days after our fourth wedding
anniversary1. We had a big
celebration2.”
1a day that is exactly one or more years after an important event
2a time when you do something you enjoy because it is a special day
Language help
adjective | noun |
engaged | engagement |
pregnant | pregnancy |
verb | noun |
celebrate | celebration |
marry | marriage |
D ‣ Divorce* 
“Things started to go wrong1 when I got a job as manager of a sport swear company. I was working six days a week and I had to do a lot of travelling. It was difficult for Melanie as well. She was working during the week, then at weekends she was often alone / on her own2 with two young children. I felt I couldn’t give up3 my job, and in the end Melanie decided to leave4 me. The following year we got divorced5.”
* when a marriage officially ends
1 become a problem
2 without other people
3 stop doing
4 stop living with me
5 the marriage officially ended