More Speak English Like an American » Lesson 2: Mark Discusses His Regrets

Word List
  • (to) kick oneself
    to regret something

    Example: Sue is kicking herself for quitting her job before finding a new one. Now she’s got no money and can’t get any interviews.

  • on someone’s case
    bothering or nagging somebody to do something

    Example: Ted complained that his mother was always on his case about doing his homework.

  • What’s the big deal?
    What’s the problem? What are you worried about?

    Example: “So Diane’s decided to leave the company. What’s the big deal?” – “She’s one of our top employees!”

  • off one’s rocker
    crazy

    Example: When Briney Spears shaved her head, some people thought she was off her rocker.

  • (to) have the hots for someone
    to have romantic feelings for someone

    Example: Gary has the hots for you. Didn’t you see how he was starting at you during the meeting?

  • (to) open a can of worms
    to do something that will lead to problems later

    Example: We’d like to let you work from home, but it would just open a can of worms. Everybody would want to work from home.

  • (to) have a few screws loose
    to be crazy

    Example: Nick met a woman on the Internet, and she showed up in a wedding dress on their first date! He realized she must have a few screws loose.

  • control freak
    a person who wants to control everything

    Example: “You moved the chairs around in the conference room without asking me first?” – “Yes, I did. I didn’t realize you were such a control freak!”

  • (to) suck it up
    to deal with something unpleasant; to endure something without complaining

    Example: I know you don’t like your roommate, but the school year is almost over. Suck it up for another couple of months.

  • recipe for disaster
    something which is likely to cause trouble; a bad idea or plan

    Example: Emily put the time and place of her next party on Facebook.com for everybody to see? That’s a recipe for disaster!

  • (to) get back together
    to restart a romantic relationship

    Example: Ken and Nancy got divorced two years ago, but lately they’ve been talking about getting back together.

  • (to) let someone off the hook
    to free someone from a duty or obligation; to forgive someone for not doing a duty

    Example: You’re too busy to walk the dog today? Okay, I’ll do it today, but I’m not letting you off the hook for tomorrow.

  • no-win situation
    a situation where all options are unpleasant

    Example: I’m in a no-win situation. If I promote Rachel, then Bill will be angry. If I promote Bill, then Rachel will leave the company.

  • (to) breathe down someone’s neck
    to watch over someone very closely in a way that makes them uncomfortable or pressures them to do something

    Example: I promised my boss I’d finish the report by Friday. Hopefully, he won’t be breathing down my neck all week.

Practice The Idioms

Choose the most appropriate response to each sentence:

  1. Nina is starting to think that her new boss has a few screws loose.
    • a) Why doesn't she like him?
    • b) Why doesn't she offer to tighten the screws?
    • c) What did her boss do to make her think that?
  2. Jim has the hots for Andrea.
    • a) Then he'll probably ask her out.
    • b) Then he should wait until he cools off.
    • c) Then he should stop seeing her.
  3. I told Karen that I was too tired to help prepare for the party, so she let me off the hook.
    • a) That's too bad.
    • b) That was nice of her.
    • c) Maybe she'll put you back on the hook later.
  4. I'm kicking myself for investing in Carl's company.
    • a) How much money have you lost?
    • b) How much money have you made?
    • c) How much has Carl kicked in?
  5. I hope my boss stops breathing down my neck.
    • a) You should tell him you need a lot of close attention.
    • b) You should tell him your neck is getting too warm.
    • c) You should tell him you work best when you're left alone.
  6. Is it true that Jessica is a control freak?
    • a) Yes, she has no control over anything.
    • b) Yes, she doesn't trust her employees to do anything on their own.
    • c) Yes, she really does behave like a freak.
  7. Don't repeat any gossip you hear at work. It's a recipe for disaster.
    • a) That's good advice.
    • b) You're right. It's a great idea.
    • c) I agree. It is a good recipe.
  8. Kevin's next door neighbor is always on his case about turning down his music.
    • a) The neighbor must enjoy listening to it.
    • b) Kevin should turn the music up.
    • c) Kevin must play it very loudly.
  9. I know you're not happy about having to go on a six-week business trip to Malaysia, but just suck it up.
    • a) Okay, I'll tell my company I can't go.
    • b) You're right. I am looking forward to it.
    • c) You're right. The time will go by quickly.
  10. I think we've opened a can of worms by asking out employees to be more open with the management.
    • a) I agree. We're getting very valuable comments.
    • b) I agree. Now they're all complaining about their bosses!
    • c) I agree. We should close the can as soon as possible.
Answer Key
Mark Discusses His Regrets

Mark regrets telling Ron that his ex-girlfriend Cindy was the source of his information. He doesn't want to call Cindy back because he's afraid she'll think he wants to date her again. Steve tells him he'll need to call her anyway.

Steve: What's wrong.

Mark: I'm kicking myself for telling Ron about my ex-girlfriend. He's on my case. He wants me to call her for more information.

Steve: What's the big deal?

Mark: She's off her rocker, and I think she still has the hots for me. I don't want to open a can of worms!

Steve: So she's got a few screws loose! It couldn't be that bad.

Mark: It is. She's a control freak, too.

Steve: If I were you, I'd just call her. Suck it up!

Mark: I'm afraid it's a recipe for disaster. If I call her, she may think I want to get back together.

Steve: well, Ron is not going to let you off the hook. He wants more information.

Mark: I'm in a no-win situation. If I don't call her, Ron will keep breathing down my neck. If I do caller, I'll have to talk to her!

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